<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1"?><rss version="1.0"><channel><title>Diary of S M</title><link>http://iconox.rediffiland.com/</link><description>Diary of S M</description><language>en-us</language><item><title>Job is like a marriage ?</title><description><![CDATA[<P><FONT color=#333333 size=4><A href="http://equalsources.com/2008/08/29/job-is-like-marriage/" target=_parent>Does a job like a marriage</A> ?</FONT> </P><P><FONT size=2><FONT color=#666699>A recruiter, who arranges a rendezvous (interview) between Bride & Groom (Candidate a<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666699; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: '"><SPAN style="COLOR: #666699; FONT-FAMILY: '">nd Company) and then arranges their marriage (Offer Letter) is indeed similar to working out of a marriage. But, the marriage does not end there. It is an association between a company and employee to work out a common goal ....</SPAN></SPAN></FONT></FONT></P><FONT size=2><FONT color=#666699><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666699; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: '"><SPAN style="COLOR: #666699; FONT-FAMILY: '"><P></P><P></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10pt"><UL><LI><DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: small; COLOR: #666699; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri"><FONT size=2>Only similarity in a job and marriage is you can do both on attaining the age or 18.</FONT></SPAN></DIV><LI><DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: small; COLOR: #666699; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri"><FONT size=2>To run a family you require one spouse to run a company you require many employees.</FONT></SPAN></DIV><LI><DIV class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: small; COLOR: #666699; FONT-FAMILY: Calibri"><FONT size=2>Finding a spouse requires EQ where as finding a</FONT><SPAN>n</SPAN><FONT size=2> employee requ</FONT></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></FONT><A href="http://equalsources.com/2008/08/29/job-is-like-marriage/" target=_parent>............Read More</A></DIV></LI></UL><P> </P><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/548/29389e1a782e0408284d876d7cb9420b/homep/images/1219988037">]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2008 10:59:33 +0530</pubDate><link>http://iconox.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/08/29/Job-is-like-a-marriage.html</link></item><item><title>Return of Love Thieves</title><description><![CDATA[<H2 style="MARGIN: auto 0in; LINE-HEIGHT: 10pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><H2 style="MARGIN: auto 0in; LINE-HEIGHT: 10pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><FONT size=2>Have you ever been lost in love? The most enigmatic yet talked about thing in this world is love. Getting into make your life seem beautiful, accepting it is like a greatest challenge in the world seem fulfilled, rejecting leaves being stranded into isolated lanes of solitude and depression for being dejected, finishing the love itself makes life color less.<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></H2><H2 style="MARGIN: auto 0in; LINE-HEIGHT: 10pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><FONT size=2>Going through the oblivious memories of the Love thieves who were strangers to the life that seem not be stranger some time before, leads to false illusion of return of love that never was. Taking the plunge into the "thieves of love" (those who had love but leads to broken love) re-creates re-develops and re-stimulates the love pulse to re-ignite the fire that ever was. Experiencing to face those acquaintances who some time was love interest is nothing like re-altering your ego about perception of those who could not be part of life any more. Trust again with the same person is far, far across the galaxies. But it always enthuses to know about the same person with same mold of thought to re-enter and re-formulate the love equation to make dormant old chemistry of molecules to work.<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></H2><H2 style="MARGIN: auto 0in; LINE-HEIGHT: 10pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><FONT size=2>Life continues! there are always crossroads on the pathways; it brushes with the old leaves of that tree that ever was on looking at the passersby. Love once broken cease to be same again. It loses the vital energy in the relation. It does not breeze your way to being eternal. However, it stays, somewhere in the junkyard of back of your memory process. Is never can be showcased as just arrived.<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></H2><H2 style="MARGIN: auto 0in; LINE-HEIGHT: 10pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><FONT size=2>Some time in life every one wonders about this enigma, there are quotes, stories and endless movies based on true love. I still wonder that what is truth has to do with it when you let enter benign doubts to waste your life to gauge the level of truthiness. There is nothing truth or false in this when your conscience says that it is truth for you then the whole history of false hood in this world is a true wonderland for you. No one can let you make realize the truthiness of it. It stays, resurge, relive and reactivate that vital feeling rippling in like called Love.<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></H2></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 8pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><FONT size=2>.<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></H2><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/548/29389e1a782e0408284d876d7cb9420b/homep/images/1210995335">]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 09:06:56 +0530</pubDate><link>http://iconox.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/17/Return-of-Love-Thieves-1.html</link></item><item><title>The Future Redefined</title><description><![CDATA[<P><FONT color=#333333 size=4><A href="http://equalsources.com/2007/08/04/the-future-redefined/" target=_parent>The Future Redefined</A></FONT> </P><P>The books are way of life and the collection of books that we keep is our knowledge source often. It will be crazy idea to keep a collection of books handy while on the move or going for work for any book worm. When is the last time you bought a newspaper on the news stand to keep abreast with the latest happening. Have you ever lost the way and helpless because you do not have access to the map of the place. What will make you take a plastic sheet instead of bulky <A href="http://equalsources.com/2007/08/04/the-future-redefined/" target=_parent>............Read More</A></P><P> </P><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/548/29389e1a782e0408284d876d7cb9420b/homep/images/1186217423">]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2007 14:17:25 +0530</pubDate><link>http://iconox.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/08/04/The-Future.html</link></item><item><title>Staying In Shape....</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face=Helvetica color=#800000 size=4>As the moon goes on its trip to waning away the illumination it comes as the fading all glory that it bestows in it. Some time some things are as enigmatic as this universe it self. Every thing that comes will go away and surprisingly comes back in again. The moon starts to glow as the waxing begins.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p><FONT face=Helvetica color=#800000 size=4> </FONT></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face=Helvetica color=#800000 size=4>Shape or absence of it, when have inkling of liking something it remains. The time moves on it self we come and see what it has bestowed on us. Create what we can give to others. Carry along what we get in return and leave a legacy for others to follow. Time is never same; staying in shape is not that easy, it occurs to human life that it wanes. Mostly! </FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p><FONT face=Helvetica color=#800000 size=4> </FONT></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face=Helvetica color=#800000 size=4>Getting the strength to charge up the energies one requires is all about balance of life. Achieving the equilibrium in self and others is commendable. The moon looks for sun to be able to glow to give the charm of ever majestic. Like life the bio rhythm cycle makes one be dull or sharp. All comes from the mental strength to be bold or nerved. Never occurs so easily without the inspiration. Inspiration to live, to be happy or to get going. Shape up the life at the best of your efforts. The brighter days will be ahead.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p><FONT face=Helvetica color=#800000 size=4> </FONT></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face=Helvetica color=#800000 size=4>I really wonder sometime if something like the universe if could get that concise to be able to hold on to the energies that we build within. Escaping the waning and turning it as ever be like a full moons day.like the picture along with here.</FONT></P><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/548/29389e1a782e0408284d876d7cb9420b/homep/images/1181454703">]]></description><pubDate>Sun, 10 Jun 2007 10:17:04 +0530</pubDate><link>http://iconox.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/06/10/Staying-In.html</link></item><item><title>Conspiracy Theory</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Trebuchet MS" color=#008000 size=4>What is going on, who will you trust? When conspiracy is on, everyone tries to bullying around. The men came alone in this world and become a social animal. When the social people interact with each other they pass the common faith and mutual trust. That is the point the conspiracy begins. It is to let down the thing that obtrudes. It is part to make evils social, take out the elements of wrong doing in the society or to get along with the consenses of masses. Very much a common thing can be seen often in politics.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p><FONT face="Trebuchet MS" color=#008000 size=4> </FONT></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=4><FONT face="Trebuchet MS"><FONT color=#008000>Everyone has a command of his own life and freedom to choose and liberty to decide. Unless it involves others there are no compulsions on someone to give-up their values. When you belong to a group of organization it becomes very much necessary that your values are for the endeavor of a group and that should gel well. Protrusion will cause extractions for others and hence conspiracy will be to knock out. Doing personal things in the personal way is the good thing. Make sure a group is well in harmony of your personal acts.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </SPAN></FONT></FONT></FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p><FONT face="Trebuchet MS" color=#008000 size=4> </FONT></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Trebuchet MS" color=#008000 size=4>Have you ever been on cross roads in life to take on the major decisions? But have you ever been on crossroads just because of others poached on you. That's the difference in real life and forced life. Former is often a part of daily life to decide the ways where as the later is forced circumstances to get trail on the very few options available. In fact none of the available options but only imaginations. This world is same can not escape when the theory is on. It is conspiracy.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p><FONT face="Trebuchet MS" color=#008000 size=4> </FONT></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Trebuchet MS" color=#008000 size=4>When the conspiracy is done to gain the personal objectives then it could go a long way to make prejudice of one into curse of other. Even most of the personal relations witness it. When living becomes tough with trust lost in oblivious relations and people are no more cordial. Believe it or not the theory is written by someone who is near to you but making you stranded. You would realize that who are going to be the culprit but cant escape as they belong to you in daily part of life. Avoiding does no difference as that is as same changing the bunch of bullshits. These people are found everywhere and make realize that the life is meant to live by doing conspiracies. They do not actually have the substance to lead the good things and be occupied in their creativity. These creatures are made to conspire and they will do that striped of their virtue. It is none of a these people business but a play game sort for use less minds. But when it really causes the pain to others the time will give those back the thing they design for others.</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p><FONT face="Trebuchet MS" color=#008000 size=4> </FONT></o:p></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Trebuchet MS" color=#008000 size=4>Fed up into the lost world. Give the bash to the bullshits and get ahead of these crabbed entrapments into the emotions breakdowns due to the conspiracies. Give a punch get going!</FONT></P><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/548/29389e1a782e0408284d876d7cb9420b/homep/images/1180757762">]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 02 Jun 2007 10:00:07 +0530</pubDate><link>http://iconox.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/06/02/Conspiracy.html</link></item><item><title>The Blame Game</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" align=left><FONT face=Helvetica color=#008000 size=4>This world is a playground and people play games. What that makes one save ones head is all about blame game. It is scarce of the incident that anyone escapes from this. To be held responsible and liable for what one does passing the buck is common thing for all. No one realize when they are in the playground. It comes naturally when the two teams are on the battle then killing spirit is on work on the ground zero. But when the play is off the ground and it turns out to be in the team within and the near and dear one turns out to be the real rivals and the blame is supreme.<BR><BR>It is the game plan that goes beyond time period and ages. All are into it. History has witnessed it. To keep oneself be sincere one takes all one say on stride. It is apparent that in the modern age most of people wants to experiment as for what one says for what one does. When something goes against the wishes or as it was expected to be done by some one. The people make all possible things to turn the favor by gathering enough information to kickoff the blame game. We are innocent ever as the purity of carbon in diamond but others are all entrapped with the blames. Getting oneself better by blaming others wrong is no superiority ever.<BR><BR>It is just point of view. Different people for the same thing have the different interpretations. If everything had been alright with every body then this world has no agony at all. But getting out of the agony is the all that make one stronger and tougher and face the things boldly. The blame always is there in some form but remember that comes out of the personal desire to not to let someone be over your wishes.<BR><BR>The blame is always there don't be hurt by this when you are real because real always is distinguished. Time is heal; blame vanishes with time as the truth prevails. </FONT></P><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/548/29389e1a782e0408284d876d7cb9420b/homep/images/1180156676">]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2007 10:08:57 +0530</pubDate><link>http://iconox.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/05/26/The-Blame.html</link></item><item><title>Ridicule this</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Chicago">There are times when the first choice proves to be mistaken or turned out to be dumb. Not applicable to all or everything one does but the life become cumbersome or lost for some of the excuses or may be valid reason. Helplessness encircle around causing misfortune. </SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Chicago">The picture shown was the advertisement campaign in Chicago by the Divorce Lawyer Attorney. Making waves with the eye catching physiques and encouraging splitting up. </SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Chicago">Now how fair that to discuss in here is something I am thinking about. I saw this campaign while doing surf and thought interesting to have a say in here and get some of your comments about it. Well, when every one has their products on promotion by different forms of advertising then in the race of big business selling the lawyer attorney has their way of promoting their services to the society. How far it is achieved or what is ethical will be decided in the court room. </SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Chicago">Can I really ridicule this? Of course, the life is really short! Oh really? Not in general, but in terms of the people we meet and like. We want some moments to last for ever. The unexpected euphoria continues in the thought process and some dream of making it for real. When I think about the possible second sentence get a divorce, some say why to marry when have to get a divorce anyway. Now the point is not really is just to make business for the lawyer get a split. There could be many reasons or absence of any reason what so ever. It is all about your gut to lead the life. Coming out of miserable or making miserable it could be anyway out.</SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Chicago">The truth is many think about it, Many go about it and many just get a split and do not do anything about it. This kind of advertising has done its way more then the usual impact as it gets the free publicity across the globe. Just may be a useful stuff if you are thinking about making your life with getting a makeover or else ridicule this.</SPAN></P><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/548/29389e1a782e0408284d876d7cb9420b/homep/images/1179805750">]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2007 09:39:07 +0530</pubDate><link>http://iconox.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/05/22/Ridicule.html</link></item><item><title>I am fed up on Planet Earth</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Some Astronomers say that they have found most Earth-like planet outside our Solar System which possibly have the water running down its surfaces. <BR><BR><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">I was thinking about the genie that had perhaps used to visit my dreams from a distant planet could be from 20.5 light-years away in the constellation Libra. Where the temprature of day time veries from 0* to 40* celsius that could possibly make the presence of liquid water on the planet and existance of life. The planet which is just bigger than earth in size by 1.5 times with the ecstasy of mountains and beaches will be like virgin land untouched by the human reach. <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: 'MS Mincho'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">I asked to the genie that take me along to the place you have come from and she says she can not take me to the place where no one can find me after. Thus it would be better that men makes the sufficient research in the space mission to find life out side the earth. How about the place where the whole year will end in just 13 days. The sun star of the place will be red fury in cool dimmed light then the blazing sun which will be as near as 14 times sun is to planet earth.  </SPAN> <P><!-- S IBOX --><TABLE cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0 width=208 align=right border=0><TBODY><TR><TD width=5><IMG height=1 alt="" hspace=0 src="http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/shared/img/o.gif" width=5 border=0></TD><TD class=sibtbg><DIV class=sih><FONT size=2>EXOPLANET GLIESE 581 C</FONT> </DIV><DIV class=o><IMG height=245 alt="Infographic, BBC" hspace=0 src="http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/42848000/gif/_42848423_superearth02_203.gif" width=203 border=0> </DIV><DIV class=mva><DIV class=bull><FONT size=1>Mass: Five times Earth's mass</FONT></DIV><DIV class=bull><FONT size=1>Orbit: 13 days</FONT></DIV><DIV class=bull><FONT size=1>Temperature: 0C - 40C</FONT></DIV><DIV class=bull><FONT size=1>Distance: 20.5 light years </FONT></DIV><DIV class=bull><FONT size=1>Constellation: Libra</FONT></DIV></DIV></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE><!-- E IBOX --><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">The basic question I asked to genie "'Is there life anywhere else?"'  <BR><BR><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">"Genie says that the men have become too intelligent and the astronomers are narrowing in on the ultimate goal - the detection of a true Earth-like planet elsewhere. Then why you worry there will be a way to my home on the distant planet very soon which is 120 million and million miles away"  <BR><BR><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Suddenly I woke up and realized that Astronomers have discovered new planet and its companions in the Gliese 581 system that will soon become prominent targets for missions to find Terrestrial planet when they fly in about a decade."  <BR><BR>I was backpacking my stuff and getting ready to my journey to camping in <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:place w:st="on">Himalayas</st1:place>. <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P><BR><BR><BR><BR><BR> </P><A href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/mediaselector/check/player/nol/newsid_6590000/newsid_6590400?redirect=6590479.stm&news=1&nbram=1&bbram=1&bbwm=1&nbwm=1" on-click="java-script:newsi.utils.av.launch({storyId:6590479, fileLoc: '/player/nol/newsid_6590000/newsid_6590400/', nbram: 1,bbram: 1,bbwm: 1,nbwm: 1});return false;"><B>What the 'super-Earth' could be like </B><BR clear=all><IMG height=13 alt="" hspace=0 src="http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/nol/shared/img/v3/icons/video_text.gif" width=57 vspace=5 border=0> </A><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/548/29389e1a782e0408284d876d7cb9420b/homep/images/1177582585">]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2007 15:04:11 +0530</pubDate><link>http://iconox.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/04/26/I-am-fed-up-on-Planet.html</link></item><item><title>Then &amp; Now</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">I was sitting and pondering over the thoughts of Chanakya</SPAN><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275 BC)</SPAN></I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> that he was and used to bring reform in the socio political system. Not much in deep but as I come across a blog that was a kind of gist of teachings of the great Indian Guru. Well with the time there had been tremendous changes and the working methods of economics and politics have gone a sea change. In this 21<SUP>st</SUP> century getting adapted to the age-old teaching is not feasible at all. Doing it the same way will be moving in reverse direction to that era than to move forward. Yes he was reformist of his era but with the time equations changes and there is no such recipe that works in all situations in all time.<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">With due respect to the Guru of ancient <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">India</st1:place></st1:country-region> I honestly try to describe what he has ever said and what is the ground realities now. Any body seems to be contrary to my comments, please have your say: <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">  </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR></SPAN><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">"A person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and honest people are screwed first."</SPAN></I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Franklin Gothic Medium'; mso-fareast-font-family: Batang; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">Though honesty is the best policy but in the time of need you have to be articulating with better communication so that you are understood the way you want. If every body had been following Chanakya then there would have lost the word of trust. <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR><BR></SPAN><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">"Even if a snake is not poisonous, it should pretend to be venomous."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></I></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Franklin Gothic Medium'; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">Snakes are creature not above humans it is poisonous to protect from its enemy and make its living. They are very much part of our universe. Although in the present age, the venom of snake is used to protect humans not to kill them. In the implied meaning of qoute we create our strangth to reveal our power to protect our race and yet be peaceful without trespassing and infringement to others.    <BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR></SPAN><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">"The biggest guru-mantra is: Never share your secrets with anybody.It will definitely destroy you." <BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></I></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Franklin Gothic Medium'; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">Present age lives of people are open diaries like a blog. There is nothing secret in the age of internet and the modern mantra is transparency even you have right to information by law. Hallmark of success comes by sharing the secrets of success. Even Chanakya did that once he was through with change regime in the city.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR><BR></SPAN><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">"There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no friendship without self-interests. This is a bitter truth."</SPAN></I><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> <BR><BR></SPAN></I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Franklin Gothic Medium'; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">Friendship has turned to be business partnerships and network of people you have acquaintances with. Self interest is supported by the friends to get that same in return. It is like what you give that you get.</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR><BR><BR></SPAN><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">"Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions - Why am I doing it, What the results might be and Will I be successful. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead."</SPAN></I><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> <BR></SPAN></I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Franklin Gothic Medium'; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">Well the first question is strong enough to give the answers. Why I am doing it?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Franklin Gothic Medium'; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">If you know why you are doing it your result will be the purpose you are doing it. Success and failure are the respective terms related to the efforts and methodology used to get the work done. Think deeply in the planning stage and later is the action and that has to be get going.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p><BR> <BR></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">"As soon as the fear approaches near, attack and destroy it."<BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></I></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Franklin Gothic Medium'; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">Finish off the root cause of your greatest fears you will never be afraid again.<BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR></SPAN><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">"Once you start a working on something, don't be afraid of failure and don't abandon it. People who work sincerely are the happiest."</SPAN></I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: gray"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all direction."</SPAN></I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray">"A man is great at by deeds, not by birth."</SPAN></I></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR><BR><BR></SPAN><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">"Never make friends with people who are above or below you in status. Such friendships will never give you any happiness."</SPAN></I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Franklin Gothic Medium'; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">Happiness comes with sharing. Now is the world of equal opportunity to all, the status comes with arrogance. Law is same for all. Friends can be like minded people considerate enough to share their joy and sorrow. Happy people make the happiness be it any where. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR></SPAN><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">"Treat your kid like a darling for the first five years. For the next five years, scold them. By the time they turn sixteen, treat them like a friend. Your grown up children are your best friends."<BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></I></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Franklin Gothic Medium'; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">Well Chanakya himself has not gone thru this and he was the most beloved child of their parents till he was parted to go to Pathliputra for his education.</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> Even the destiny took its toll and later he met his childhood love to whom he married.</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Franklin Gothic Medium'; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial"> <BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR><BR></SPAN><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">"Books are as useful to a stupid person as a mirror is useful to a blind person."<BR><BR>"The world's biggest power is the youth and beauty of a woman."</SPAN></I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></I></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><I style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: gray; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">"Education is the best friend. An educated person is respected everywhere. Education beats the beauty and the youth."</SPAN></I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"><BR style="mso-special-character: line-break"></SPAN></P>]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2007 08:20:12 +0530</pubDate><link>http://iconox.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/04/17/Then-.html</link></item><item><title>Remembering yau</title><description><![CDATA[The moment you met me, the wait was over that was lingering a long.<BR>Never knew that it will come the way it shaped up eventually.<BR>The time had stopped for a while to know should it move again.<BR>Various thoughts that flooded inside to know that it is a reality.<BR>Had you accented the turn of life would have turned to be smooth.<BR>The moment that was in time can be revisited in gallary of thought.<BR>You have come to know you are the one.<BR>Far across that we were have come to be one in that time.<BR>Fulfill the desire that has carved to make its way in the hearts.<BR>Should it continue to be as it is or let it go on in spirits.<BR>Walk & Move on...<BR> <br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/548/29389e1a782e0408284d876d7cb9420b/homep/images/1176611619">]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 14 Apr 2007 02:45:44 +0530</pubDate><link>http://iconox.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/04/14/Remembering.html</link></item></channel></rss>